say this:

• she was beautiful
• she wrote poetry
• she loved her family
• she loved her hometown
• her mother was the most important person in her life
• she wished boys liked her more often
• she was smart
• she had a beautiful voice
• she had beautiful eyes
• she left her stories behind
• she should have lived longer
• it is a tragedy

do not say this:

• she lied
• she stole
• she cheated
• she sometimes doubted god
• she became ugly when she was mad
• she was insecure
• she was sad
• she used to bruise herself
• she ate too much
• she slept too much
• she threw up too much
• good riddance